Affairs and The After Math | Socyberty

A description of the journey of overcoming my husbands affair.

? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?okay, so this is going to be like every other story about a man and his affair but, it?s not about him. I think all to often people hear about a man having an affair or a women and they think the spouse is crazy for staying in the relationship. The question to ask yourself is have you ever been in the situation, or maybe you have and you don?t even know it. 70% of men cheat, I know that seems huge and it seems like men are dogs.

I have to say I have felt that way , I have been angry, hateful, disrespectful, threatened violence and in the end the one question there is no good answer to is ?why?. The answer is never something you want to hear there is a transfer of guilt onto you, there is a feeling that it is something you did. In the end it is simple, we worked really hard at our relationship, we spend allot of time together, I have a very demanding job and I have never felt that I was not good enough for my husband. Then out of the blue it was in my face an affair with a c0-worker of mine who I considered a friend and felt sorry for and tried in every way possible to help. I spent many conversations with my husband saying she was a good person and was just struggling with a no good husband and three kids and yes she was the one who made herself available to my husband who was what appeared to her to be a dream, and full time job a devoted husband and I was busy working 60 hours a week. The glory of a new relationship began, it went on for two weeks til my husband was so lost in what he did he left, I was not aware of the relationship but within 24 hours it would be really clear.

My husband left and was gone for ?less than 24 hours before he asked to come home and talk I was very confused as to why he left and he came home to talk and was full of apologies for leaving but, he didn?t tell my why, it got late we went to bed to continue the conversation the next day.That is when she called defending him and her having private conversation and telling me he was trying to get out of a bad situation and nothing was going on. My heart knew then what he needed to tell me. I went home from work phone rang and it was here again, my husband was walking in the front door the same time as me she heard he voice and her story started to change and when I started asking question she hung up on me. I approached my husband and said there is more to why you left and it may be best if you told me. We let the kids play and went to our room and that is when he told. He left me so he could clear his head, should have done that before the affair. He came cleaned and answered the questions I had. I was so furious I didn?t call her back I called her husband.

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